What Science Says About Happiness in Later Life
For a long time, many assumed that happiness naturally declined with age. We now know that’s often not the case. In fact, many studies point to something called the “U-shaped curve of happiness.” This suggests that self-reported happiness is often high in our youth, dips during the high-stress middle-age years of career-building and child-rearing, and then begins to climb again in our 50s, 60s, and beyond.
Why does this happen? Researchers believe several factors are at play. As we get older, we tend to have a better perspective on life’s ups and downs. We often become more skilled at regulating our emotions, letting go of small annoyances, and focusing on what truly matters. We’ve learned that life is precious, and we’re less inclined to waste time on negativity. This wisdom, earned over decades, is a powerful asset for building a joyful retirement.
However, this upward swing in well-being isn’t automatic. It’s an opportunity, not a guarantee. The loss of a professional role, changes in health, or shifts in family structures can present real challenges to our sense of self and happiness. That’s where intentional practice comes in. The habits we’ll explore are designed to help you proactively nurture this natural tendency toward greater contentment. They are the practical tools you can use to build on your life experience and consciously create more joy, connection, and purpose in this new chapter.
At its core, positive psychology reminds us that well-being is about more than just the absence of sadness; it’s the active presence of positive emotions, engagement, good relationships, meaning, and accomplishment. The seven habits that follow are your personal toolkit for cultivating each of these essential pillars of a happy life.