What secrets are safe to keep?
Being honest is essential to any successful marriage. You ‘tied the knot’, and you promised to be loyal and faithful no matter what until death tears you apart. However, there are some things you should keep to yourself because sharing them with your partner could make them feel offended or, worse yet, harm your relationship. After all, we all deserve to keep some things to ourselves.
For example, in my case, my marriage has taught me that some things are best left unsaid. Keeping a secret from your significant other is not a big deal, even though most couples view lying as a big no-no. Read this article if you’re unsure of what to share and what to keep to yourself. Let’s find out!
I agree about having my own bank account. We do share everything financially basically but when he was working I would put away money every month and sometimes I had a very part-time job singing, still do sometimes, and when I get paid I put all that in my bank account too. My husband knows about it. The problem is he says we could be making more money if we invested that Money elsewhere. He’s right about that but there’s something inherent in me that says keep it for a rainy day For something I want or need for something I want or need or for an emergency when I or he might need some money right away without going through hoops to get it from somewhere else. In general, I find it more satisfying to share things with friends because a lot of things I might tell him or things I read or hear about, he often doesn’t want to know-Not interested he says. We will this August be married 54 years.