9. Calm down!
It’s never going to work. Telling someone to “calm down” is a surefire technique to increase their irritation, so why even bother. It’s always best to keep a calm attitude and to talk to them about your situation, not get angry and start to yell.
10. In your relationship, who is the man or woman?
Oh, this question is such an annoying example of straight folks attempting to confine gay people into a square box. Who cares what they are doing inside their own homes? Masculinity and femininity are two sides of the same coin, so there is no need to be all judgy.