8. You barely talk
This might come as a surprise to you, because many times, people don’t correlate talking with attractiveness. But in reality, when someone finds somebody else attractive, they want to spend a lot of time together. And we all know that you can’t stay with someone for several hours and not say a word.
On the other hand, when one of the partners doesn’t find their spouse attractive anymore, it will manifest as a lack of interest. This includes less talking. If you don’t care enough for someone, you don’t want their company and you only think of how you can get away from their lives slowly, but surely.
When we say that you really talk, it’s not about the “good morning” or the “good night” that you say every day. We are referring to serious conversations when you need their full attention.
If you want a quick fix for this, you can ask your spouse about how their day was, while keeping eye contact. Listen carefully and ask questions that will lead to further conversation.
