He went out with “his colleagues”
He has always been a workaholic, ever since you first met him. However, he suddenly starts to spend more time in bars and restaurants with his new friends or colleagues. There’s nothing wrong with going out once in a while or keeping your social life as active as possible, but when the man you once knew takes a completely different turn, then it might be the right time to ask yourself if something’s off. You could also try to find out if he actually goes to any of those places he’s telling you about or if, in reality, he’s going to see his lover.
His phone was allegedly in silent mode or the battery was dead
When men are cheating, they put their phones in silent mode on purpose. The exact reason why they do that can’t be defined: they either want to forget about their lives, or they want to cut any possible source of external guilt that might hit them.
Whatever it is, I’m sure it doesn’t apply to all individuals. But if you notice that your partner started to make a habit out of losing his phone, then something’s definitely off. Why would he close his phone for such a long amount of time? In this time and age, there’s no such thing as a dead phone, especially since we have access to wireless chargers and batteries.
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As I was reading this article all I could do was laugh because I’ve heard them all.
Wow…sounds similar to excuses women use.
I don’t think spouses or lovers should be going through each others things. There’s such a thing as privacy. Just because your married or in a relationship doesn’t mean you’re privacy should be violated.
Need to read!
Seems like a typical anti male article. Most of these would apply to women too. If a man “cheats”, he must have someone to cheat with. For women, I would also include things like, I am going out with the girls for a drink and gossip. I am going to bunco or a book club or a wine club. Or I am going to help a sick friend. Or I am going to see my family member. Women have their excuses too. Women have their reasons to “cheat”.