1. He doesn’t want to take care of the household by himself
Sometimes, men are unsure of how to express their concerns to their spouses. For instance, in a home where a family spends most of the time, chores are divided and each family member has a job to do. While he is expected to take out the trash or kill any unpleasant insects in the house (such as spiders or cockroaches), you can cook or clean the dirty sink.
Regarding these tasks, try to be honest with your partner. Perhaps he has a nagging issue that causes him to occasionally desire to change things up a bit. Don’t end up hating each other because of these things. It’s better to address the problems you’re dealing with and have an honest and open conversation before it’s too late.