They strive for mastery and growth
An alfa strives for personal growth and always values genuine connections. As alpha males, they realize that life is an ever-evolving journey and that they must constantly work to improve themselves to succeed in all aspects of life.
This alpha male characteristic manifests in various ways: setting and achieving goals, continual learning, taking calculated risks, and constant self-improvement.
Since they’re always looking to improve themselves, they usually surround themselves with people who can help them grow. They know that to excel in life, they can’t always rely on their abilities alone. They must also rely on others for wisdom and support.
As such, they always seek mentors who can guide them toward success. Alphas also know that to constantly improve themselves, they need to set goals and take steps toward achieving them.
They do this by setting difficult yet attainable goals based on their unique strengths and weaknesses. They then accomplish these goals by developing a clear plan of action that includes deadlines and milestones for achieving each part of their goal.
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Interesting. However, reading through this, I wonder why these traits are just attached to men. I have known and worked with many women who demonstrate these traits on a daily basis. Yet I question that they would describe themselves as Alpha Males.
Perhaps, just perhaps, we can establish that those who are successful in following this path, both female and male, are worth respect.
In addressing male traits, in particular Alpha Male traits, the author appears to be focusing attention, and the intention of the article, on men. There does not have to be a unisex reference made for any and every topic pertaining to men or to women. That in itself is erroneous thinking.
If the article was addressing the dynamics of women contesting one another for winner of a beauty pageant for example, why bring a comparison of male traits or maleness into it at all? Anyone with a reasonable and well grounded common sense would know it’s for women and women only—just leave it at that.
And men are be okay with that. Women might do the same—-as it should be.
Masculinity is different from femininity, and there is no valid reason to emasculate males to suit or attempt to equalize the status of men and women, for women. That is complete folly!
There is plenty of room for honoring men as men, celebrating our unique qualities. Don’t need the approval of women to do so! However, healthy grounded men know that it is natural for them to seek the support of the women they love, in doing so.
In fact given all the absurdity with gender multiplicity (absolutely abhorrent concept) pushed down young people’s and children’s throats these days, the society needs strong, clear men, and strong, clear women to correct this egregiously harmful, utter non- sense!
The more important point here is that clear men and clear women know who they are, and need not create confusion and chaos for themselves, and especially not for there children or society’s children and Youth.
I agree entirely with you. Some people would disagree with a ROCK.
You are focusing too much on gender. Traditionally, Alpha was used to address male attributes. Surely we are intelligent enough to understand that nowadays this can be applied to both male and female. Nothing about the society in which we leave is closed to one sex or the other.
Exactly!! Can’t we just speak about one topic without having to include every other species in one conversation. Goodness gracious.
I agree wholeheartedly with your thoughts. It is refreshing to know that there are still men out there that are strong in the purpose and leadership. I am a strong woman but looking for my alpha partner to support, love and honor each other in all we do.
Well stated.
You should go back to school and learn basic spelling and grammar. Furthermore, this article had nothing to do with the topic upon which you spent a majority of your response pontificating.
No one said these only attach to men. The article refers to MEN not women. If you want to write an article about women then do it. I have met many women in my life that could just as easily have the same assets and probably did.
I have found within my experiences, People of Alpha characteristics, are not the same across the two genders. In fact, females who display the alpha trait often demonstrate emotional detachment from others, and sometimes behave in a covert manner in an attempt to get even with another female co-worker.
While the male alpha will most likely be over confrontational with same gender co-workers.
The best person for Management positions are Sigma types.
Just my observations!!!
yeah that’s true , there’s apha females on bee and ant colonies
Linda, there are also alpha women. Click on the following link. If it doesn’t open, copy and paste it into your browser.
The Alpha Female: 9 Ways You Can Tell Who is an Alpha Woman
https://www.scienceofpeople.com/alpha
Haven’t even read the article yet and came up with the same question.
I would think that the topic is “males” and more specifically “alpha males”. If the topic were females or people/humans in general, then alpha traits in females would be an appropriate part of the discussion. Just my take on the question and the non-issue.
Exactly – I know many women with these traits also. Maybe we should just say “Alphas or Alpha People”
It’s called alpha women, we been socializing men into the gutter for decades
Because the article is about Alpha Males. Your want to write one about Alpha Women have at it.
Linda, I had the same exact thought! These are characteristics of great leaders and people….
For those who find distress in not affirming the Gender Female in this article. I, a older (60+) white male would certainly fall in the category discussed here. In fact routinely tells me that I am not a Type A (Alpha), but a Type Triple A. I would say this about the lack of discussion of the Alpha Female, I would say this. The Gender Male here could very well have been used to describe both the Gender Male and Female. As the article clearly portrays, the Alpha traits include a very high level of self-confidence. Should someone who is a true Alpha personality, they do not seek, desire nor need adulations from others, they have that self-confidence built inside of themselves. Simply put, the need to have other tell you just how good you are is actually a sign that that particular individual is indeed not a Type Alpha personality. Enough said.
Self-proclaimed Alpha Male.
Reading thru this article, I did a short reflection on my personality. I have been referred to as being an alfa personality many times over my adult life. At first I thought someone was buttering me when they referred to something I did or a solution to difficult situation. As I grew older and wiser, it came to me that there might be something to what people has said about me. As I read this article it became clear to me, why this was said about me. I definitely possess 5 of the 7 traits, the sixth a sure may be and the last not so sure. I found in my case this to be a very accurate description of my personality.
I totally agree with Linda and Sharon, I have had interactions with quite a few female counterparts that exhibited the very same Alfa traits but were never referred to as Alpha females. I feel this is long overdue to be corrected.
HOGWASH~ This diatribe is strictly opinion based and describes the “alpha males” role in the context of a group or crowd.
You completely ignore the “alpha males” who are loners, rugged individuals, pioneers, or isolated researchers. Wasn’t Jesus Christ the ultimate “alpha male”?? Did he spend his days on Earth trying to fit into a crowd, or appease others? NO! He was the ultimate in a Compassionate leader and healer.
Instead of wallowing in this opinionated drivel, why don’t you allow yourself to be influenced by that ultimate “alpha male”, YOUR PERSONIAL SAVIOR—Jesus Christ?? The power of Jesus can actually isolate you from the prevalent wickedness and evil which is overwhelming the world today!!
HERE!!—Let’s try this—“Oh Heavenly Father—through your beloved son, Jesus Christ—will you isolate me and my loved ones from wickedness and evil (including, but not limited to the following—)
* Predators
* Parasites
* Propagandists
* Opportunists
* Greedsters
* Manipulators
* Drug Crazed
* Criminally Insane
* Miscreants
* Sex Maniacs
* Sundry Other Demoniacs
AMEN!!”
This positive message is yet another free gift from your favorite Sage, Feral Tomm! You are WELCOME!!
Since men are mostly masculine energy, I would expect there traits to differ from women. This study is about alpha males and not women which possess more feminine energy. Also, some women show strength due to the pain experienced in their past. This is why women would not necessarily have the same traits as men. Why do we want to be so much like men, my strength in my feminine energy comes from a different place and that’s ok.
I agree with the traits, And i can only think of 2 men close to me that can meet all those marker. I am so fortunate one is my husband the other my son in law.