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10 Things Women Do Behind Closed Doors

February 10, 2022 · Relationships
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1. They wear the same bra every day!

Don’t take this the wrong way, because they have a lot of bras: lacey, colored, black, white, nude, transparent, strapless, backless, frontless, you name it!

However, all of them have a bra that makes their girls look nice and plump, regardless of the color or model! It doesn’t matter how many options they have, or how beautiful the one in the closet is, they will usually go for the one that does the right thing to their b***s!

…Click on the next page to see what other weird things women do all the time! 

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75 responses to “10 Things Women Do Behind Closed Doors”

  1. Locke Perkins says:
    January 3, 2023 at 10:38 pm

    I’ve always wanted confirmation of what I think I know after 55 years of marriage.

    Reply
    • James McGauran says:
      January 16, 2023 at 12:50 pm

      If it helps, Sigmund Freud was asked was asked toward the end of his career, what he had learned about women.
      And he said he knew less today than he did when he started

      Reply
      • Ron B says:
        April 1, 2024 at 7:30 pm

        Was Freud a misogynist?

        Reply
    • Nancy says:
      April 3, 2023 at 1:31 pm

      This is the dumbest thing I’ve read in a while. Fluff piece that helps no one.
      Try again and state the real things women do behind closed doors; for instance cry, get angry, scream, write their frustration into a journal. You can’t say it out loud because no one HEARS you. Do better, I’m disappointed.

      Reply
      • Denise says:
        October 13, 2023 at 12:49 am

        Thank you.

        Reply
      • Tammy J O'Malley says:
        March 31, 2024 at 7:46 pm

        I agree with you!!….Mostly.
        It was a dumb article, no question-however, the bra thing? Yep. Removing hair in private? Yep.
        I have one more that wasn’t addressed; Dying my hair. I’ve been with my Husband for 14 years and I will not allow him to be in the vicinity when I dye my hair. I just like to keep the mystery of SOMETHING.
        Oh, nose-picking should be on the list for men and women both.
        Have a great day!!🙏😁

        Reply
      • Edith Polk says:
        April 1, 2024 at 10:42 am

        I wholeheartedly AGREE!!! This article proved nothing of substance. In a way….petty!!! We scratch our ass and pick our toes like them!!!

        Reply
      • Elizabeth says:
        July 13, 2024 at 4:10 pm

        I totally agree

        Reply
      • linda J Parker says:
        July 14, 2024 at 3:11 pm

        Who wrote this anyway it’s the stupidest thing and who knows what women do behind closed doors maybe that’s what that person does where do they get their information this is one of the weirdest ones I’ve read take it off get a get a real job

        Reply
      • Neena Chand says:
        July 15, 2024 at 4:06 am

        Me too.

        Reply
      • Armando says:
        January 8, 2025 at 5:39 am

        Yes you’re right I read first your comment and still when to read those stupid things 🙄🙄 who care women do those … Not important not interested.. nothing that help to understand them better .

        Reply
      • JoAnn Poplar says:
        February 2, 2025 at 9:33 pm

        Good review and input. I found the article one sided and sexist. I maybe do 2 of those things like stretching to check and like to spend time in a hot bath but the rest is fluff. I’d like them to print something like what men do in secret. they just lost my interst in reading any thing else they’s print. And you are right I journal.

        Reply
      • Lucinda Davis says:
        February 2, 2025 at 11:58 pm

        I totally agree. It really gets on my nerves when these so-called experts make these ridiculous claims. Who did they spy on? How would another person know if you are doing whatever behind closed doors?

        Reply
    • ed says:
      August 3, 2023 at 1:34 pm

      all women are a gift from god

      Reply
      • Ron B says:
        April 1, 2024 at 7:25 pm

        AMEN!

        Reply
    • Carolyn says:
      July 13, 2024 at 7:49 pm

      I feel this is absolutely not true. None of this speaks of me.

      Reply
    • Julie says:
      February 3, 2025 at 2:40 am

      I thought it was a good article. I liked spraying the pillow and I do use dry shampoo if I don’t want to wash my hair:)

      Reply
  2. Larry D. Green says:
    January 4, 2023 at 5:28 pm

    It ok they are a Great Gift from GOD.

    Reply
  3. davey bear says:
    January 16, 2023 at 2:23 pm

    I once had a girlfriend who i loved to do her laundry with mine so i could smell her fragrance on her clothes to help remind me why i missed her so much. I was reminded by your comments about the perfume on the pillow. I would often keep one of her (unwashed) blouses that she wore under my pillow to have her there when she didn’t stay over. Like the song sez, “Always something there to remind me…”

    Reply
    • Silvia Ledee says:
      April 17, 2023 at 6:46 am

      I really like your coment. I always spray my colony in the sheets and under his pillow, beside to leave some my sexy bra or underwear like I forget 😜

      Reply
      • Deborah Tyler says:
        October 11, 2023 at 3:39 pm

        Me too, lol.

        Reply
      • Lola DiFranco says:
        April 1, 2024 at 1:22 pm

        Women should have some secrets. It makes them better people and more interesting.

        Reply
    • Shannon says:
      July 6, 2023 at 2:03 pm

      So sweet and romantic

      Reply
  4. Joanne Fernandez says:
    January 16, 2023 at 4:26 pm

    This is the most ridiculous article on women I have ever read. What about masturbation and other delights? Give us more credit for being brilliant.

    Reply
    • Shannon says:
      July 6, 2023 at 2:04 pm

      Love it. So true we do things behind closed doors that we would never tell especially to the entire world

      Reply
    • Ron B says:
      April 1, 2024 at 7:31 pm

      There’s plenty of porn for you to look at

      Reply
    • Dee says:
      April 3, 2024 at 12:18 pm

      Double your thoughts – in that department, there is absolutely NOTHING that a woman cannot do in that arena! Oh yeah, put on some soft music and dim light!

      Reply
    • Joseph G Mattera says:
      July 22, 2024 at 10:08 am

      Dildos And Vibrators Are Quite Popular
      Absolutely Nothing Wrong With Using Them

      Reply
    • Lucinda Davis says:
      February 2, 2025 at 11:59 pm

      You said it perfectly!

      Reply
  5. Tad says:
    January 16, 2023 at 5:36 pm

    lol A man must have written this. I’m female and most of these things are simply not true for the vast number of women. If this was written by a woman, than she just told on herself, not on women as a whole.

    Reply
    • Armando says:
      January 8, 2025 at 5:43 am

      There are stiped things that who care if they do it…. There are some stuff the we men really try to figure out about all you .. not that BS

      Reply
  6. Melody Keller says:
    January 16, 2023 at 8:01 pm

    There was a story in the Arthurian cycle where there was a truthful answer to the question of what women want. The answer: “Women want sovereignty over their own lives.” I’ll add “As much sovereignty as men have over THEIR lives.”
    Women resent men who take control of their lives away from them, by denying women anything that men can have, like an education, freedom, entry into clubs, etc., etc., ect. Any wonder women resent Sharia law, or other bigoted constrictions put on them simply because they are women?

    From woman to woman, each differs as far as how they want to run their own lives, just like men differ in that department.

    By the way, I don’t do the majority of things mentioned in this article.

    There, women are not so mysterious, after all.

    Reply
  7. Riggins says:
    January 16, 2023 at 8:21 pm

    I think you left out “farting” lol

    Reply
    • Sammie says:
      April 1, 2024 at 4:53 pm

      I agree lol

      Reply
  8. Dorinda Ethridge says:
    January 17, 2023 at 7:28 am

    yes most women do those things behind closed doors, I stumble onto this looking through my email, which is true, and I am a woman, most women never feel comfortable unless they do some of these things or all, we worry about things that just jumped into our pretty little minds for no reason things like how do i look, will my husband or boyfriend like this, will he remember me in the morning and speaking of hair, gross, and must have lotion, for some women like me if you have very sensitive skin, and seeing a dermatologist, clothing can hurt just when it touches you for other soft skin or you don’t see me. now the stalking thing, not me at all, i listen to music or watch puppy videos well any animals mostly except for the fork togues without legs, lizards i love to see and frogs to, now my granny did the money stashes in her bra, i don’t regular pockets on my Levi’s has always worked fine. just ask if anymore questions happen to pop inside your handsome minds.

    Reply
  9. Tina says:
    February 27, 2023 at 2:25 pm

    Married at 16 co own a business with husband of 44 years run a household and I still feel I have done Nothing. I don’t get Heard. The feeling of not being able to get the point across that this is MY LIFE as well as it is everybody else’s life. I CRY behind closed doors.

    Reply
    • Tad says:
      April 3, 2023 at 8:38 am

      Tina, you need some support. I strongly encourage you to talk with a professional that can help you learn how to value yourself and get validation from others.
      It’s a miserable, lonely existence to feel as you do. I know.. I’ve been there. But you can learn how to reframe your thoughts and come out a healthier, more complete person.
      Please.. speak to a professional..and find the RIGHT professional. Go to them until you get from them what you really need!
      I wish you the very best!

      Reply
      • linda J Parker says:
        July 14, 2024 at 3:14 pm

        Yes i agree!!

        Reply
    • Shannan says:
      April 3, 2023 at 12:56 pm

      Sale out and start over. You didn’t come into this world together don’t let polite and unrealistic expectations keep you wondering. We die alone in this world be of joy not just happy.

      Reply
    • Nat says:
      April 3, 2023 at 1:32 pm

      You are Enough!!! God Bless you!

      Reply
    • Hbiker500 says:
      April 3, 2023 at 8:58 pm

      Don’t cry alone Tina. I would express my feelings with my partner and cry together. It looks like you two are not communicating. Crying together should open up emotional divides that have developed over time that must be bridged. Hopefully this will be the beginning of a much better relationship. I wish you well!

      Reply
    • Linda says:
      April 4, 2023 at 1:08 pm

      Tina…..EXACTLY !! Whether they want to admit it or not, all women cry when no one is watching. Women have made great progress in the work place, but not in the home when they NEED to be heard there! Way to go you great big, strong men!

      Reply
    • MARY R HANLEY says:
      April 4, 2023 at 2:15 pm

      I hear you, Tina. I was married young. Because I was a people pleaser. Then I was divorced 25 years later. I had a boyfriend for five years. We separated and I dated a lot. I sort of assumed I would be in a committed relationship, but not marriage. The guys all wanted marriage. No. My marriage was good, my divorce was emotionally and financially devastating. I moved to a new state and started over. No more men. No more relationships. Friendships, yes. But no dating. Am I lonely for that? Nope. Or I would be doing it. No one person can fulfill you, except you. When I was married, I had a friend circle. When I divorced I made new friends. When I moved, I made more new friends. I love what I do for income now. Get creative, Tina. Two-thirds of your life is behind you. But you have another third ahead of you. Make the best of it. I wish you happier days ahead. Sincerely, Mary

      Reply
    • Nicole says:
      April 4, 2023 at 8:36 pm

      Read the book The Empowered Wife or listen to the Podcast. It will change everything.

      Reply
    • Tom says:
      April 6, 2023 at 6:40 am

      Maybe your initial move at 16 started the doubting process. Maybe it’s time to let it go. Isn’t 44 years with the same man punishment enough ?? Not able to get a point across ?? Does what you’re saying have a point ?? Is that point relevant to others ??

      You are the captain of your ship. Hasn’t that ever occurred to you ? Are you living for others and not yourself ? Living for yourself takes a backbone. Maybe you should schedule a replacement operation. Why cry behind closed doors ?? Why not out in the open ?? Could be the most honest thing you’ve ever done. It could be liberating. Things have to change. Developing a backbone might be the first step. Then you could be the captain. Good luck. You deserve better than what you have given yourself.

      Reply
    • Colleen Haddock says:
      April 6, 2023 at 7:56 pm

      Rise and Stand! You have as much value as anyone else! Don’t ever forget that. I know about crying. So sorry you are sad.

      Reply
    • Debbie says:
      August 7, 2023 at 8:12 pm

      I feel your tears,I cry too…not seen for who we really are!

      Reply
    • Ralph says:
      April 3, 2024 at 1:39 pm

      Don’t cry…I’ve been married 3 times and still looking for true love. The meaning of life is to have memories from defining moments in your life. You get to spend those defining moments together which creates more and more. The best part of your life is the 44+ years you had and have to share the moments.

      Reply
  10. Drew Mcghean says:
    April 3, 2023 at 8:18 am

    good

    Reply
  11. Drew Mcghean says:
    April 3, 2023 at 8:18 am

    need more information’s

    Reply
  12. Jmb says:
    April 3, 2023 at 10:28 am

    Yes i believe in bra, not shampoing hair, stalking, money in bra, long hrs in the bathroom and flirting!

    Reply
  13. Joe Fig says:
    April 3, 2023 at 12:20 pm

    Approaching a man and a flat-chested woman both wearing thongs that have been on a desert island for months and there isn’t going to be a lot of difference except for the beard

    Reply
  14. Carl says:
    April 3, 2023 at 1:33 pm

    Sometimes you get the tru sent of a woman
    All male animals respond to natural musk🥰

    Reply
  15. Ann says:
    April 3, 2023 at 1:52 pm

    ARE YOU SERIOUS????
    I don’t do any of the behaviors you mentioned and most of what you wrote is an INSULT TO WOMEN!!!
    Are you kidding???? Who spends HOURS in the bathtub making sure EVERY hair is off one’s body??????

    Reply
  16. Anastasia says:
    April 3, 2023 at 4:02 pm

    I’m not the best communicator and it weighs heavy on me. I k one that’s the primary reason I don’t have a significant other in my life. It’s something I’m working on and hopefully will allow myself to trust and open up to a lifelong partner.

    Reply
  17. Suzanne Babylon says:
    April 3, 2023 at 8:45 pm

    One thing you didn’t say was. We have a secret sense. Lie detector, we know the truth before men can say anything. From cheating, lying, to let me tell you why. We all ready know. For example. My boyfriend for 6 years would stop and get ice cream before coming home from work. One day I knew what time he was getting off so I followed. And watched him sit in his car eating an ice cream cone. Wow.

    Reply
  18. Charlie says:
    April 4, 2023 at 1:15 am

    I will never get those 2 minutes back.
    They are gone forever.

    Reply
  19. Dbb says:
    April 4, 2023 at 4:46 am

    Good info and gave me a few ideas. I think we could be silently depressed, hiding true feelings about their relationship; and in fear of their future .thanks for sharing , love the topics and could be funny too.

    Reply
  20. Kris Baughan says:
    April 4, 2023 at 9:20 am

    THIS Isn’t NEW! I am 68 and learned it from my beloved grandmother. Brassieres, Girdles, Socks, Shoes. A girl has to do what a girl has to do. 😉 #resourceful

    Reply
  21. nailbender says:
    April 4, 2023 at 2:53 pm

    I let my wife of 47 years think she’s in charge. She does a pretty good job most of the time but occasionally I have to remind her and get her back on the right track.

    Reply
  22. Jerry says:
    April 4, 2023 at 5:21 pm

    Jerry says

    After 58 years of marriage, How did we get along? as a husband I found not to argue about small things it is easier to give in and the big wait give it some time to talk about. Then write a letter to your love one and explain you thoughts abot it.

    Reply
  23. Sheila says:
    April 4, 2023 at 9:07 pm

    I.have done #10 but in reverse … start “stalking” then see an ad and off OI go. None of the others though, nor do most of the ladies I know!

    Reply
  24. Wanda Unis-Flaim says:
    April 6, 2023 at 8:28 am

    I’ve done them all & then some!!!!

    Reply
  25. Günseli Naymansoy says:
    April 7, 2023 at 8:11 am

    Although I am extremely hardworking, self-sacrificing and qualified, I am single because I do everything openly and clearly and do not compromise on my personality. Because I ended my marriage, which I continued for 10 years, when I realized this fact.

    Reply
  26. Shannon says:
    July 6, 2023 at 2:11 pm

    These things aren’t behind closed doors these are every day things women do that the entire world can comprehend and agree. Behind closed doors is fulfilling sexual fantasies either with someone or themselves. We don’t even have breakdowns behind closed doors what’s the point if no one knows we’re upset. We do things such as sing out loud when no one can hear we dance when no one is watching but the number one thing women do behind closed doors is fulfilling their sexual needs!

    Reply
  27. lesley opheim says:
    October 12, 2023 at 1:12 pm

    Women also cry, pray and write their thoughts in a journal privately as well. They dream, they self love and enjoy the quiet of an early morning or late evening as well.

    Reply
  28. roger young says:
    April 1, 2024 at 7:01 pm

    there is something you forgot. all most all women do it when they are alone but im not saying what it is.

    Reply
  29. Nunya says:
    July 13, 2024 at 4:11 pm

    I never cyber stalk. I don’t like that. I don’t use flirting. I despise that too sort of.. but it’s sweet that we do the other things, I carry my money in my bra, I wear my best bra all the time. I would only put sunscreen on the exposed part

    Reply
  30. ann csalany says:
    July 14, 2024 at 2:21 pm

    out of the 10 i am guilty of 0.a man must have written this bull shit

    Reply
  31. Dorothy Leaks says:
    July 14, 2024 at 3:04 pm

    This is not true for most females! The only one that identifies me, was number 8 because I hate washing my hair and dirt actually grows my hair but my hair never stinks because I don’t put sprays and gels on my hair.

    Reply
  32. John says:
    July 14, 2024 at 9:38 pm

    Suggestions:
    – Good communication and honesty are VERY important..including sharing, LISTENING & negotiating one’s ( male, female, gay, etc ) needs and desires.
    – Much of this can be realized and worked out before choosing to live with someone.
    – Marriage / sharing life together can be viewed like a garden…every day requires eliminating “weeds” from the garden.
    – Loving one’s partner is key. as is being willing to compromise and assist one’s partner to achieve what they desire…and probably more.

    Reply
  33. Pall says:
    July 14, 2024 at 11:14 pm

    This article is fund as rocks. But I hate to insult rocks

    Reply
  34. Leah says:
    January 7, 2025 at 7:33 pm

    I wore the same bra every day because I only had 2, and they were there just to keep the damned things still, sort of. Did I want them to look nice, no, I wanted them to go away! I have costochondritis and I’ve had it since the 1970s, and it is only getting worse. I got a reduction, which helped some, but it still hurts! I don’t wash my hair a lot, even with a bench in the shower, it takes too many spoons to shower every day, much less wash my hair. As for the other stuff… nope, but I’m a very poor example of a woman so…

    Reply
  35. JHB says:
    January 14, 2025 at 2:30 am

    I love women they are a gift from god! Their mentally stronger (most of them) tham most men. I right combo of man and woman is a beautiful thing to see Ive witnessed this watching my grandparents for 40 years. Never seen them argue they had 5 kids 4 boys 1 girl, and another boy who died of crib death. They were all about family they lived off the land, hunting, fishing, colloected there eggs from the flower beds from the free roaming chickens. Its a shame that this is rarely seen these days two people after 55 years that still gets that sparkle in there eye when one or the other walked in the room, it was amazing to witness ans sad to see go. Rest in peace Mr & Mrs Bailey your truley missed.

    Reply
  36. David says:
    February 2, 2025 at 11:19 pm

    This WEB site does not work. You’ve wasted my time by leading me into a bunch of useless ADs, but made no mentions of the topic this page claimed to be showing (Ten Things Women Do Behind Closed Doors)

    Shame on you for your faulty attention getter –
    Shame on me for falling for it !

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