5. They go out of their way to make “jokes”, but they are actually insulting you.
“Why are you so sensitive? It was just a joke!” If you have heard these words, it means that you have witnessed one of the signs that someone has bad intentions toward you. In a friend group, if you are close, everyone ends up making jokes about you, but they are all of good nature and not constant. However, if you always end up being the butt of the joke and these ‘jokes” only serve to embarrass or humiliate you, then they are not jokes.
That person is going out of their way to pick on you with “humor” so that they can excuse their behavior as playful if you ever take offense. In the meantime, you would be seen as overreacting even if they always picked on your insecurities and kept insulting and making you feel bad about yourself.
If you observe any of these signs someone has bad intentions, we suggest you get rid of these types of people from your life.
If you think these signs that someone has bad intentions toward you are concerning and you may have dealt with them before, there is a chance you may be dealing with a type of narcissistic abuse! Read here to check out the more alarming signs of narcissistic abuse!
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Ive had this done to me. I was told I was too emotional and even childish. Now I admit I am not perfect and I have my troubles. But I tried and I tried hard to appease the other person. I did what I needed to do never asked for anything and tried to stay out of their way. But that was never enough. He complained that all I was doing was raising his bills. It was such a hurtful situation to be in. Constantly belittled and told to suck it up. He even told me that his words should not alter my emotions. I was told to do better..I was drained emotionally and afraid.
My neighbor gives me a creepy feeling. He can be nice to others, but not to me. I personally feel, my gut feeling, is that he feels threatened by me, because I am independent, and I don’t have a problem standing up for myself. He knows I have been widowed for many years. He is a bully, and Bullys his girlfriend. He has 2 distinct different personalities that I recognize. I choose to avoid him and have little to no conversations with him. I don’t care for his Negativity. I feel it, and refuse to be a part of his ways.
My husband has forgets what hes done and lies about small things.
my husband sometimes makes jokes about me belittle me. I stay away from him and do house work and cook.and web browsing. He never does any chores without me asking him. I even have to ask him to take the garbage out. Don’t understand why he doesn’t know it needs out every day.
Hello, I am a hairdresser and am keenly aware of people’s energies and body language. As such, I have had to learn to guard myself from psychic “vampires”. I look for and try to detect passive aggressive behavior, lying or fibbing and verbal abuse/ gaslighting. It’s exhausting physically, and emotionally. I hope that people in general can learn to be more open for asking for what they need so as not to have to turn to these maneuvers/ behaviors. That’s all I’ve got.
This is a person that I let stay in my home. These tare the things that he has tried on me. Even the gas lighting. God knows. I’m just glad that he is gone early before I get up and doesn’t come back till late at night. So I’m not around him that much. On the weekends he has his kids here but he usually takes them somewhere and is gone mostly
But I want him out so I’m trusting God that He will help me
I have been scammed by a man that said he was in the military and on a mission, but he hadn’t been paid yet, so would I send $25 to feed his dog that he took on the mission, so I sent it.
Then he asked for $100 to feed his dog and him for a week, I sent an Apple Card each time, but I call Apple and told them what was going on, they said it was a scam, thankfully I saved cards and receipts, the did shut him down and give my money back.
If the card was bought in the USA it can’t be used in another country, and is not used for food! I have given all the information to the authorities and they are going to take care of him!
When someone at the gym tells you about your body, not really a compliment.
Then makes a comment regarding a statement you said and they then walk away.
my ex-husband exactly
if you walk with the wise you will become wise. but if you have dealings with the stupid ones you will fare badly.
bad associactions can corrupt. you can act like them. avoid harmful people as much as you can. avoid arguments that make things worse.be patient. be kind. be a caring person. phillipians chapter 4 verse 8 mentions what we should be. good advice for every one. any one a opposed to this would be foolish. even a non bible person can appreciate this great advice. read the scripture and see for yourself how good it is.
Yes I’m have been talking with someone. I feel he’s a scammer. Yes I love him. I have not met him. Yes I have given him money and now I feel I have lost everything. Every times he’s asked for money and I have given to him afterwards don’t feel right. I feel it wasn’t right. Thank you.