Recognize Challenges, Build On Agreements
If you can get down to the nitty-gritty about the things that set you and your partner off, you’ll get a better understanding of the minefields keeping your stress levels up. What types of talks could get you in hot water? Do you get into it when trying to prioritize needs versus wants?
Maybe you’re particularly touchy with your partner questioning your purchases. Knowing where things are a bit off can help you better identify what you need to work on so you don’t feel trapped in endless conflict around everything involving money troubles.
And if you look for them, there are possible exceptions to the conflicts, like things you agree on. You should make every effort to build on those. Not only can they provide a change of outlook, but they might even become your mutual financial goals.
