“You never…”
Even if you feel like pointing out certain things that your partner fails to do, don’t start with this phrase. It is something too generic and cancels all the things and times your partner did do something for you. Not to mention it is an open invitation to fight and play ping-pong with what one did and did not do throughout your relationship.
Instead of accusing them of failing you or not being completely involved in your relationship, as you might consider yourself to be, try focusing on the things that both of you do to make things work. When thinking about the positive aspects and starting a discussion with a compliment, it’s easier to insert a small complaint.
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Sheesh! How to deal with people who have no control over their emotions?? Get them out of your life! How distasteful to deal with petty women who are “all about words” and ignore actions.
Sigh—Another one of your distorted diatribes about small minded females and their low testosterone “men”! REAL men will just “LAY DOWN THE LAW” about bitchy pettiness and demand calm discussions wrought with actual thought processes rather than deal with raw impulsive emotions.
MEN—Think with your big heads and avoid these toxic girls/women at all costs!!
Another bit of free advice to chew on from your favorite sage—Feral Tomm.
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