Navigating Anxiety in Seniors
While depression often involves looking back with regret, anxiety is about looking forward with fear. Concerns about health, finances, safety, or the well-being of family can become overwhelming, leading to a state of constant worry that interferes with daily life. Like depression, anxiety in seniors can have a strong physical component.
Symptoms of an anxiety disorder can include:
- Excessive worry that is difficult to control.
- Feeling restless, keyed up, or on edge.
- Physical symptoms like a racing heart, shortness of breath, trembling, sweating, or stomach problems.
- Avoiding situations that trigger worry, such as driving, going to crowded places, or even leaving the house.
- Difficulty sleeping because of racing thoughts.
This state of high alert is exhausting. Fortunately, there are grounded, practical skills that can help calm the nervous system in the moment and retrain the brain’s response to worry over time.
Skill 1: The 5-4-3-2-1 Grounding Technique
When you feel a wave of panic or anxiety, your mind is stuck in “what if” thoughts about the future. Grounding pulls your attention back to the present moment and the safety of your immediate environment. It uses your five senses.
Wherever you are, pause and gently notice:
5: Five things you can see. Look around and name them silently to yourself. The lamp on the table. The pattern on the rug. A crack in the ceiling. The blue of my shirt. A tree outside the window.
4: Four things you can feel. Notice the physical sensations. The texture of the chair against my back. The warmth of my hands. The smooth surface of my phone. My feet flat on the floor.
3: Three things you can hear. Listen carefully to the sounds around you. The hum of the refrigerator. A car driving by. My own breathing.
2: Two things you can smell. This might be subtle. The faint scent of coffee in the air. The clean smell of laundry soap on my clothes.
1: One thing you can taste. The lingering taste of toothpaste. Or take a sip of water and notice its coolness.
This exercise breaks the cycle of racing thoughts by redirecting your brain’s focus. It’s simple, discreet, and can be done anywhere.
Skill 2: Scheduled “Worry Time”
It sounds counterintuitive, but giving your worries a specific, contained appointment can keep them from taking over your entire day. Designate a 15-minute period each day—for example, 4:30 PM to 4:45 PM—as your official “Worry Time.”
During this time, you are allowed to worry intensely. Write down all your fears, think through worst-case scenarios, and let your mind go there. When the timer goes off, you stop. If a worry pops up at another time of day, acknowledge it and tell yourself, “Thank you for that thought. I will think about it during my scheduled Worry Time at 4:30.” This practice helps you regain a sense of control, teaching your brain that you are in charge of when you engage with worry.
For persistent anxiety, therapies like Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) are considered a gold standard. A CBT therapist can help you identify, challenge, and reframe the catastrophic thinking patterns that fuel anxiety, providing you with a robust toolkit for long-term management.
