8. They don’t wash their hair as often as you might think
If you are a man, washing your hair is easy-peasy, but if you are a woman, you understand that it’s annoying to spend a lot of time washing your hair, doing a hair mask, blow drying it, and so many other things.
This is the reason why ponytails and messy buns are such popular hairstyles. However, there is also another trick that women use in order to give off the impression that they’ve just washed their hair, and that is dry shampoo.
Who said diamonds are a girl’s best friend? For women nowadays it’s actually dry shampoo!
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I’ve always wanted confirmation of what I think I know after 55 years of marriage.
If it helps, Sigmund Freud was asked was asked toward the end of his career, what he had learned about women.
And he said he knew less today than he did when he started
Was Freud a misogynist?
This is the dumbest thing I’ve read in a while. Fluff piece that helps no one.
Try again and state the real things women do behind closed doors; for instance cry, get angry, scream, write their frustration into a journal. You can’t say it out loud because no one HEARS you. Do better, I’m disappointed.
Thank you.
I agree with you!!….Mostly.
It was a dumb article, no question-however, the bra thing? Yep. Removing hair in private? Yep.
I have one more that wasn’t addressed; Dying my hair. I’ve been with my Husband for 14 years and I will not allow him to be in the vicinity when I dye my hair. I just like to keep the mystery of SOMETHING.
Oh, nose-picking should be on the list for men and women both.
Have a great day!!🙏😁
I wholeheartedly AGREE!!! This article proved nothing of substance. In a way….petty!!! We scratch our ass and pick our toes like them!!!
I totally agree
Who wrote this anyway it’s the stupidest thing and who knows what women do behind closed doors maybe that’s what that person does where do they get their information this is one of the weirdest ones I’ve read take it off get a get a real job
Me too.
Yes you’re right I read first your comment and still when to read those stupid things 🙄🙄 who care women do those … Not important not interested.. nothing that help to understand them better .
Good review and input. I found the article one sided and sexist. I maybe do 2 of those things like stretching to check and like to spend time in a hot bath but the rest is fluff. I’d like them to print something like what men do in secret. they just lost my interst in reading any thing else they’s print. And you are right I journal.
I totally agree. It really gets on my nerves when these so-called experts make these ridiculous claims. Who did they spy on? How would another person know if you are doing whatever behind closed doors?
all women are a gift from god
AMEN!
I feel this is absolutely not true. None of this speaks of me.
I thought it was a good article. I liked spraying the pillow and I do use dry shampoo if I don’t want to wash my hair:)
It ok they are a Great Gift from GOD.
I once had a girlfriend who i loved to do her laundry with mine so i could smell her fragrance on her clothes to help remind me why i missed her so much. I was reminded by your comments about the perfume on the pillow. I would often keep one of her (unwashed) blouses that she wore under my pillow to have her there when she didn’t stay over. Like the song sez, “Always something there to remind me…”
I really like your coment. I always spray my colony in the sheets and under his pillow, beside to leave some my sexy bra or underwear like I forget 😜
Me too, lol.
Women should have some secrets. It makes them better people and more interesting.
So sweet and romantic
This is the most ridiculous article on women I have ever read. What about masturbation and other delights? Give us more credit for being brilliant.
Love it. So true we do things behind closed doors that we would never tell especially to the entire world
There’s plenty of porn for you to look at
Double your thoughts – in that department, there is absolutely NOTHING that a woman cannot do in that arena! Oh yeah, put on some soft music and dim light!
Dildos And Vibrators Are Quite Popular
Absolutely Nothing Wrong With Using Them
You said it perfectly!
lol A man must have written this. I’m female and most of these things are simply not true for the vast number of women. If this was written by a woman, than she just told on herself, not on women as a whole.
There are stiped things that who care if they do it…. There are some stuff the we men really try to figure out about all you .. not that BS
There was a story in the Arthurian cycle where there was a truthful answer to the question of what women want. The answer: “Women want sovereignty over their own lives.” I’ll add “As much sovereignty as men have over THEIR lives.”
Women resent men who take control of their lives away from them, by denying women anything that men can have, like an education, freedom, entry into clubs, etc., etc., ect. Any wonder women resent Sharia law, or other bigoted constrictions put on them simply because they are women?
From woman to woman, each differs as far as how they want to run their own lives, just like men differ in that department.
By the way, I don’t do the majority of things mentioned in this article.
There, women are not so mysterious, after all.
I think you left out “farting” lol
I agree lol
yes most women do those things behind closed doors, I stumble onto this looking through my email, which is true, and I am a woman, most women never feel comfortable unless they do some of these things or all, we worry about things that just jumped into our pretty little minds for no reason things like how do i look, will my husband or boyfriend like this, will he remember me in the morning and speaking of hair, gross, and must have lotion, for some women like me if you have very sensitive skin, and seeing a dermatologist, clothing can hurt just when it touches you for other soft skin or you don’t see me. now the stalking thing, not me at all, i listen to music or watch puppy videos well any animals mostly except for the fork togues without legs, lizards i love to see and frogs to, now my granny did the money stashes in her bra, i don’t regular pockets on my Levi’s has always worked fine. just ask if anymore questions happen to pop inside your handsome minds.
Married at 16 co own a business with husband of 44 years run a household and I still feel I have done Nothing. I don’t get Heard. The feeling of not being able to get the point across that this is MY LIFE as well as it is everybody else’s life. I CRY behind closed doors.
Tina, you need some support. I strongly encourage you to talk with a professional that can help you learn how to value yourself and get validation from others.
It’s a miserable, lonely existence to feel as you do. I know.. I’ve been there. But you can learn how to reframe your thoughts and come out a healthier, more complete person.
Please.. speak to a professional..and find the RIGHT professional. Go to them until you get from them what you really need!
I wish you the very best!
Yes i agree!!
Sale out and start over. You didn’t come into this world together don’t let polite and unrealistic expectations keep you wondering. We die alone in this world be of joy not just happy.
You are Enough!!! God Bless you!
Don’t cry alone Tina. I would express my feelings with my partner and cry together. It looks like you two are not communicating. Crying together should open up emotional divides that have developed over time that must be bridged. Hopefully this will be the beginning of a much better relationship. I wish you well!
Tina…..EXACTLY !! Whether they want to admit it or not, all women cry when no one is watching. Women have made great progress in the work place, but not in the home when they NEED to be heard there! Way to go you great big, strong men!
I hear you, Tina. I was married young. Because I was a people pleaser. Then I was divorced 25 years later. I had a boyfriend for five years. We separated and I dated a lot. I sort of assumed I would be in a committed relationship, but not marriage. The guys all wanted marriage. No. My marriage was good, my divorce was emotionally and financially devastating. I moved to a new state and started over. No more men. No more relationships. Friendships, yes. But no dating. Am I lonely for that? Nope. Or I would be doing it. No one person can fulfill you, except you. When I was married, I had a friend circle. When I divorced I made new friends. When I moved, I made more new friends. I love what I do for income now. Get creative, Tina. Two-thirds of your life is behind you. But you have another third ahead of you. Make the best of it. I wish you happier days ahead. Sincerely, Mary
Read the book The Empowered Wife or listen to the Podcast. It will change everything.
Maybe your initial move at 16 started the doubting process. Maybe it’s time to let it go. Isn’t 44 years with the same man punishment enough ?? Not able to get a point across ?? Does what you’re saying have a point ?? Is that point relevant to others ??
You are the captain of your ship. Hasn’t that ever occurred to you ? Are you living for others and not yourself ? Living for yourself takes a backbone. Maybe you should schedule a replacement operation. Why cry behind closed doors ?? Why not out in the open ?? Could be the most honest thing you’ve ever done. It could be liberating. Things have to change. Developing a backbone might be the first step. Then you could be the captain. Good luck. You deserve better than what you have given yourself.
Rise and Stand! You have as much value as anyone else! Don’t ever forget that. I know about crying. So sorry you are sad.
I feel your tears,I cry too…not seen for who we really are!
Don’t cry…I’ve been married 3 times and still looking for true love. The meaning of life is to have memories from defining moments in your life. You get to spend those defining moments together which creates more and more. The best part of your life is the 44+ years you had and have to share the moments.
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need more information’s
Yes i believe in bra, not shampoing hair, stalking, money in bra, long hrs in the bathroom and flirting!
Approaching a man and a flat-chested woman both wearing thongs that have been on a desert island for months and there isn’t going to be a lot of difference except for the beard
Sometimes you get the tru sent of a woman
All male animals respond to natural musk🥰
ARE YOU SERIOUS????
I don’t do any of the behaviors you mentioned and most of what you wrote is an INSULT TO WOMEN!!!
Are you kidding???? Who spends HOURS in the bathtub making sure EVERY hair is off one’s body??????
I’m not the best communicator and it weighs heavy on me. I k one that’s the primary reason I don’t have a significant other in my life. It’s something I’m working on and hopefully will allow myself to trust and open up to a lifelong partner.
One thing you didn’t say was. We have a secret sense. Lie detector, we know the truth before men can say anything. From cheating, lying, to let me tell you why. We all ready know. For example. My boyfriend for 6 years would stop and get ice cream before coming home from work. One day I knew what time he was getting off so I followed. And watched him sit in his car eating an ice cream cone. Wow.
I will never get those 2 minutes back.
They are gone forever.
Good info and gave me a few ideas. I think we could be silently depressed, hiding true feelings about their relationship; and in fear of their future .thanks for sharing , love the topics and could be funny too.
THIS Isn’t NEW! I am 68 and learned it from my beloved grandmother. Brassieres, Girdles, Socks, Shoes. A girl has to do what a girl has to do. 😉 #resourceful
I let my wife of 47 years think she’s in charge. She does a pretty good job most of the time but occasionally I have to remind her and get her back on the right track.
Jerry says
After 58 years of marriage, How did we get along? as a husband I found not to argue about small things it is easier to give in and the big wait give it some time to talk about. Then write a letter to your love one and explain you thoughts abot it.
I.have done #10 but in reverse … start “stalking” then see an ad and off OI go. None of the others though, nor do most of the ladies I know!
I’ve done them all & then some!!!!
Although I am extremely hardworking, self-sacrificing and qualified, I am single because I do everything openly and clearly and do not compromise on my personality. Because I ended my marriage, which I continued for 10 years, when I realized this fact.
These things aren’t behind closed doors these are every day things women do that the entire world can comprehend and agree. Behind closed doors is fulfilling sexual fantasies either with someone or themselves. We don’t even have breakdowns behind closed doors what’s the point if no one knows we’re upset. We do things such as sing out loud when no one can hear we dance when no one is watching but the number one thing women do behind closed doors is fulfilling their sexual needs!
Women also cry, pray and write their thoughts in a journal privately as well. They dream, they self love and enjoy the quiet of an early morning or late evening as well.
there is something you forgot. all most all women do it when they are alone but im not saying what it is.
I never cyber stalk. I don’t like that. I don’t use flirting. I despise that too sort of.. but it’s sweet that we do the other things, I carry my money in my bra, I wear my best bra all the time. I would only put sunscreen on the exposed part
out of the 10 i am guilty of 0.a man must have written this bull shit
This is not true for most females! The only one that identifies me, was number 8 because I hate washing my hair and dirt actually grows my hair but my hair never stinks because I don’t put sprays and gels on my hair.
Suggestions:
– Good communication and honesty are VERY important..including sharing, LISTENING & negotiating one’s ( male, female, gay, etc ) needs and desires.
– Much of this can be realized and worked out before choosing to live with someone.
– Marriage / sharing life together can be viewed like a garden…every day requires eliminating “weeds” from the garden.
– Loving one’s partner is key. as is being willing to compromise and assist one’s partner to achieve what they desire…and probably more.
This article is fund as rocks. But I hate to insult rocks
I wore the same bra every day because I only had 2, and they were there just to keep the damned things still, sort of. Did I want them to look nice, no, I wanted them to go away! I have costochondritis and I’ve had it since the 1970s, and it is only getting worse. I got a reduction, which helped some, but it still hurts! I don’t wash my hair a lot, even with a bench in the shower, it takes too many spoons to shower every day, much less wash my hair. As for the other stuff… nope, but I’m a very poor example of a woman so…
I love women they are a gift from god! Their mentally stronger (most of them) tham most men. I right combo of man and woman is a beautiful thing to see Ive witnessed this watching my grandparents for 40 years. Never seen them argue they had 5 kids 4 boys 1 girl, and another boy who died of crib death. They were all about family they lived off the land, hunting, fishing, colloected there eggs from the flower beds from the free roaming chickens. Its a shame that this is rarely seen these days two people after 55 years that still gets that sparkle in there eye when one or the other walked in the room, it was amazing to witness ans sad to see go. Rest in peace Mr & Mrs Bailey your truley missed.
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