What to communicate
Try to stick to one idea at a time. Offering someone a choice is a good thing, but too many options can be frustrating and confusing. Asking too many questions or asking complicated questions is a big no-no in dementia communication. The person may become withdrawn or frustrated if they can’t find the answer.
Phrase questions in a way that allows for a simple answer. For instance, rather than asking, “What would you like to drink?”, ask if they would like coffee or tea. Questions with a “no” or “yes” answer are easier to answer.
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I’ve got 2 neighbors who have dementia. Mel is verbal and John doesn’t know me. His wife is my best friend. I go over to see her a lot. I think he gets frustrated when we leave the room because she’ll tell me what is going on. Should we stay and talk later? My other neighbor doesn’t walk and her husband says she is total care now. It’s so sad because she is only 2 yrs older than me. Is there anything I should be doing for Mel?