Ask anyone in a happy, long-lasting marriage what’s the secret to their long-lasting relationship and they’ll all tell you one thing for sure: a relationship is a two-way street and being happy with your partner requires hard work on both ends. Sadly enough, less than 60 percent of the surveyed married people claimed to be in a happy marriage.

Contrary to what many people might think, it’s more than just those arguments over what parents to visit on Thanksgiving or what color to paint the bedroom that could affect your relationship. More often than not, it’s those seemingly harmless everyday habits that could be the death of your conjugal bliss. Before you ruin a perfectly normal and happy relationship, make sure you deal with these apparently innocuous things that are driving your husband around the bend.