7. They compare you with other people

They say that comparison is nothing other than ”a thief of joy”. The only person you should compare yourself to should be yourself. How you were some time ago vs how are you now. As painful as it gets, there are cases where partners don’t find their spouses attractive anymore, but they still don’t want to let go. They want to find a way to make it work, but not in a mutual way.

For example, if you see that your spouse tells you that you should dye your hair to look more like someone, or you should lose some weight, you should do that because someone’s partner does it and so on, you should know that something is off.

When you are in love with someone, you only see the good things and the beauty that your partner has. If you feel like you are being compared with other people, it’s a clear sign that your partner doesn’t find you attractive anymore!