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Miscommunication and misinterpretation
When partners do not communicate clearly, it’s easy for misunderstandings to appear. When one partner opts to remain silent, the other may try to understand the reasons for their silence. But the guessing game most often leads to misunderstandings and misinterpretations. In the absence of communication, the partner receiving the silent treatment will make all sorts of assumptions, oftentimes wrong ones, which only aggravate the conflict.
In time, wrong assumptions and misinterpretations will deepen the rift between partners, putting even more strain on the relationship. Read also: Stop Saying These 8 Toxic Things to Your Partner!
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Emotional detachment
Silent treatment can lead to partners becoming emotionally detached. In time, when emotional connection is absent, partners might start isolating themselves and investing less and less in the relationship. Learn how to protect your relationship by Investing in Love: 6 Easy Steps to Prioritize Your Marriage.
My husband who happens to be a medical doctor would rather give me the silent treatment rather than resolve issues. He shouts me down when i try to talk and share how i feel. He does not listen and would constantly discuss our issues with his mom who always blames me and product negativity onto our marriage then wants to be close to my kids.
How does he expect things to get resolved? Does he not realize what he is doing to us? Is he done with the relationship because that is what I am reading from his actions. He also lies and has cheated on my before but I stayed which he even insults me for when he is angry. I believe he is a narcissist which i have said to him many times in anger but I don’t think i am far from the truth. I also believe his parents are narcissists as well.
Thank you for these useful tips about dealing with people, and understanding the different traits that are in people! It’s like a road map on the why and how of everyday life! Hopefully this will help!
“To prevent communication breakdown, experts recommend having an open dialogue with your significant other, really listening to what they have to say and empathizing with them. If you manage to listen and understand one another, you are on a sure way towards a healthy and thriving relationship.”
I give the ‘silent treatment’ because my wife, no matter how much I try to stay calm, has no intention of LISTENING to what I may want to say. I have suffered this trait of hers for decades. I have no option but to remain silent.
This is a no win situation if your spouse feels this is the correct way to get you to go her way. It’s a rap, because no matter what you are wrong in her eyes and you got to pay for making her feel this way.