3. Getting annoyed that your partner takes longer than you 

There are many people who can’t reach the final scene as fast as others, so getting angry or bored that you might need to put in a little extra effort, is not the way to go.

If you are already there, make sure you give all you’ve got to make both of you happy! And if that doesn’t work out for you, an easy way to get past it is to have an honest conversation with your partner, so that you can talk about what works and what doesn’t. Moreover, it might help you come up with suggestions and techniques on how to make things feel better for both of you!