Unmet needs in intimacy
Frustration and conflict may occur from a lack of fulfillment or unmet needs related to physical intimacy. There will always be tension between you if one of you craves closeness once a week while the other just wants it once a month or less. When one spouse is unhappy in the relationship, they are more inclined to look for fulfillment of their needs elsewhere.
Keep in mind that desire frequently starts outside of the bedroom. The level of physical closeness will be impacted by any unresolved issues or resentment.
Emotional unavailability
Loneliness and discontent might result from feeling emotionally cut off from your relationship regularly. This usually happens to people who have an avoidant attachment style, and while it can be worked out in therapy, it might be a little frustrating for the other person.
If this happens to you too, think about it and see if it’s worth it to be patient and work on the issue together with your partner.
Narcissistic or manipulative behavior
Negative and poisonous manipulative patterns that can seriously affect not only your connection with each other but also your relationship with yourself include self-centeredness, a lack of empathy, and efforts to control or influence.
Your confidence, sense of self-worth, and ability to maintain your sanity will all be severely damaged by narcissists’ ability to wear you down. With a narcissist, you can never have any relationship at all. Never associate with narcissists. They are unfixable, will refuse to go to therapy, and their only intention is to ruin you.
You may also be interested in reading about 9 Alarming Signs You Have Narcissistic Abuse Syndrome.
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This is all very beneficial. Especially when the couple were raised in different parts of the world in different cultures.
I left my country to be with her, and am having difficulties ever since I have arrived for the third time and left everything behind where I am from.
Great information, how do you find the person for you at an age of 65. or more. Some time money and health get in the way.
Yeah, those will do it. We had the intimacy so to speak, but if it was really only physical and not emotional and it was when the other half decided they wanted to be cordial, was it ever really intimate? See communication and empathy. We could spend lots of time comparing notes here
If therapists can’t fix these problems what good are they?
Sometimes you just have to walk away. Not looking back.
Being in a relationship with a narcissist was horrible. Controlled everything. Only cared about his needs intimately. Was told I could take care of myself in that aspect of the relationship.
The biggest problem is people belief factor
Are you Spiritually together?
Many can agree on the Natural things of Life
If one’s Spiritual Life is not built on the right Foundation, One will surely have a battle
The other factor is many don’t take the time to make sure as much as possible to examine themselves about the type of person they desire to have in their life
My brother would say I want a good woman and I in return would ask are you a good man?
We have to very careful with our decisions Yes in some cases one can be deceived
I’ve found you can like many people but the one that clicks with you is usually the one that is simply put Mature and not vain
Two can’t walk together unless they can have Respect and True Love not Lust
Lust will always be there, but not necessarily the one to put a ring on
Don’t be over anxious and take your time
When love is truly true from both , Nothing are no one can break you, yes as long as one lives there’s always going to be something that will challenge your commitment
But in the end only the two of you can decide where you desire to be
So I Leave With This Question
Would You Like To Live With Out The One You’re With?
This is an excellent article and definitely on point. Unfortunately, I have a feeling that not many are open to input when they are in love. It’s so hard to see through the rose colored glasses. It’s an excellent article.